The Power of Choice

During the recession that struck in the early 1990s, David Graebel was founder and CEO of Graebel Worldwide Movers. Beginning with a single used truck in Wausau, Wisconsin, he and his wife, Lois, built one of the largest moving and storage companies in the world. However, in 1990, one of his biggest clients was forced into bankruptcy and left the Graebel Company holding an unpaid bill for $1.8 million. It wasn't long before gloom and doom spread through all the branch offices, and David felt he had to do something quickly. He decided to call all the regional sales managers in from the field to a conference at headquarters. Here was his approach: "The first thing I did was get them all in a room, stride to the front, turn around and exclaim: 'Isn't this fantastic!' "

Several of his employees thought their boss was in complete denial. On the one hand, his company faced a loss of nearly 2 million dollars, but on the other, he was excitedly saying, "Isn't this fantastic!" In spite of their obvious confusion, David Graebel explained the reason for his optimism: "In just a few short years ... (we have gone) from one used truck and one driver to the size where a single customer can hit us with a loss of nearly 2 million dollars, and yet we are still in business the next day. In fact, we can afford to fly all of you in so we can sit down and figure out how we can get enough business to cover that loss." Because of his positive attitude, the managers of the Graebel Worldwide Movers found more business, not just to cover the loss, but enough to make 1991 its best year ever.

The lesson from David Graebel's experience is this important one: The world's greatest force is the power of choice. While we may not always have control over events and issues that come tumbling into our lives, we always have the power to choose our response. No matter how troubling or tragic the circumstances that fall upon us and no matter how much they diminish our options, we are always left with the power to choose our attitude. Educator and author Leo Buscaglia stresses the importance of our power to choose this way: "It's time people tell you you're not at the mercy of forces greater than yourself. You are, indeed, the greatest force for you." The courage to choose wisely demonstrates that we are living a proactive, well-thought-out life rather than simply living a reactionary life.

Choose Rising Up After Falling Down

Here are two contrasting quotes to seriously consider. The legendary football coach Paul "Bear" Bryant observed: "The first time you quit, it's hard. The second time, it gets easier. The third time, you don't even have to think about it." The other quote is from writer Minna Thomas Antrim who makes this observation: "Three failures denote uncommon strength. A weakling has not enough grit to fail thrice." After experiencing a failure or falling, ask yourself these kinds of questions:

  • Do I want to be a quitter or an overcomer?
  • Do I want to be defeated or victorious?
  • Do I want to descend or ascend?
  • Ultimately, do I want to be tragic or triumphant?

The way to be one who overcomes, to be one who is victorious, to be one who ascends, and, ultimately, to be one who is triumphant lies in your power of choice. Choose to rise up after every falling down.

Choose Integrity over Compromise

"Hold yourself responsible for a higher standard than anyone else expects of you. Never excuse yourself," said the 19th century cleric and newspaper editor Henry Ward Beecher. In matters of principle, be the kind of person who stands firm, like a rock.

One of the most popular and amazing small aircraft is the Lear Jet. It was created by Bill Lear, who was an inventor, aviator, and business leader. Lear held more than 150 patents, including those for the automatic pilot, car radio, and the eight-track tape (You can't win them all!).

In the 1950s, he sensed the need and potential for a small corporate jet. It took him several years to turn his dream into reality, but in 1963, the first Lear Jet made its maiden voyage, and in 1964, he delivered his first jet to a client. Bill Lear's success was immediate and rapid as he quickly sold many aircraft.

However, not long after he got his start, Lear learned that two of his jets crashed under mysterious circumstances. He was devastated. At the time 55 Lear Jets were privately owned, and Lear immediately sent word to all the owners to ground their planes until he could determine what caused the crashes. The thought that more lives might be lost was far more important to him than any adverse publicity that would result from his action. As he researched the ill-fated flights, Lear concluded he knew a potential cause but could not verify the technical problem on the ground. There was only one way to know whether he had diagnosed the problem correctly and that was to re-create it personally — in the air.

This was, of course, a very dangerous proposal, but that's what Bill Lear did. As he flew the jet, he nearly lost control and almost met the same fate as the other two pilots. He managed to make it through the tests and was able to verify the defect. Lear developed a new part to correct the problem and fitted all 55 planes with it, eliminating the danger.

Think about the integrity it took for Bill Lear to follow that course of action. Grounding the planes cost him a lot of money. Further, it planted seeds of doubt in the minds of future customers. As a result, he needed two years to rebuild his business. Yet, he never regretted his decision. He was willing to risk his success, his fortune, and even his life to solve the mystery of those crashes, but he was not willing to risk his integrity. Be like Bill Lear: Demand integrity from yourself.

Choose Perseverance

After several years of trying to persuade grocers to carry his new brand of popcorn called Red Bow, the creator was deeply discouraged. "Was I, at the age of 63, pursuing a foolish dream?" he wondered as he drove gloomily back to his Valparaiso, Indiana, office. Were his many years of researching, cultivating, and perfecting the new, better popping corn leading him to a marketing dead-end, he wondered. Whenever he approached a retailer, the comments were always the same: "There are over 80 different brands of popcorn on the market. We don't have room for another, especially when it costs 2 1/2 times as much."

Although every response from retailers to his new product was disheartening, the man decided to try yet another approach. He consulted a Chicago marketing firm that recommended the product be marketed as Orville Redenbacher's Gourmet Popping Corn, featuring his picture on the label. "I drove back to Valparaiso wryly thinking we had paid $13,000 (equivalent to $65,000 today) for someone to come up with the same name my mother had come up with when I was born," Redenbacher recalls thinking that day in 1970.

Still uncertain about their advice, Redenbacher decided to test-market their idea. He approached the largest retailer in the Midwest, Marshall Field's Department Store in Chicago. After learning the name of the manager of their seventh-floor gourmet food department, Redenbacher sent him a case of the newly labeled product to his home. Redenbacher did not enclose a note or return address. A month later he phoned asking, "Did you like it?"

"Like it?" the manager responded. "We want to stock it!"

Excited by his first order, Redenbacher loaded it into his pickup truck and drove it in to Chicago, personally delivering it to Marshall Field's huge State and Randolph Street store. As an additional marketing ploy, he offered to autograph jars of the popcorn. Marshall Field's executives liked the idea and began heavily promoting the popcorn in newspaper ads. Redenbacher spent three full days getting writer's cramp.

Today Orville Redenbacher's product is the bestselling popcorn in the world. However, his success began as he was reaching the age when most people think about retiring. Although he could be called a late bloomer, Orville Redenbacher and many others like him are living proof that it's never too late to start an adventure.

There are, of course, many other important choices for us to make as we journey through life. But, the important thing is that we are intentional and self-directed in our choices rather than simply being people who drift with the flow.
Victor M. Parachin is an ordained minister, freelance journalist, and author of several books. Learn more about Victor M. Parachin.